"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best way to tell a chick I don't want to her anymore..

Bigbuttlover

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So I have been dating a girl for about 6 months. Only dating, not a relationship or anything. She knows that as well. During this time, I have been dating plenty of other women, now I am basically just bored with her and don't want to continue dating. She has been out of town and now back.

What is the smoothest easiest way to tell her? I would rather avoid this in person, so online or phone would be preferable. Usually I just stop answering calls and it takes care of itself but this chick isn't taking a hint.

Thx
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rakishness

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Just be honest. Tell her that you don't want to be in a relationship at this time. Giver her the old "It's me not you" speech. I hope this helps. Breaking up sucks sometimes.

BTW...I can tell by your name you are gonna love this vid.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQFelb_bpzU

DAYYUUUM!!!!!!
 

Bigbuttlover

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rakishness said:
Just be honest. Tell her that you don't want to be in a relationship at this time. Giver her the old "It's me not you" speech. I hope this helps. Breaking up sucks sometimes.

BTW...I can tell by your name you are gonna love this vid.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQFelb_bpzU

DAYYUUUM!!!!!!
Damn!!! That is truly one huge ass. I've had some big butts in my day but nothing like that...crazy lol..nice link.

Back to the subject, thing is its not a relationship, we were just dating, nothing more. I just dont want to date her anymore, I got bored. She knows I see other people, I dont know if she was, I dont really care.

Maybe I should just be honest as you say and tell her I met someone and want to see how it progresses.
 

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^^^UHH, that girl is a fatass. You can tell that she eats at that place alot, McDonalds. All that fatty food is going straight to her ass. Sick.
 

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ryannath said:
^^^UHH, that girl is a fatass. You can tell that she eats at that place alot, McDonalds. All that fatty food is going straight to her ass. Sick.
Sick my ass, I would love to get my hands on that big ass. She doesnt even look fat, just really curvy. I love **** like that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJDamage

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Bigbuttlover said:
What is the smoothest easiest way to tell her? I would rather avoid this in person, so online or phone would be preferable. Usually I just stop answering calls and it takes care of itself but this chick isn't taking a hint.
Is this girl proned to violence, threats or suicide? if the answer is no then there is no reason as to why you can't just tell her in person that you want to see other people and to take a break from her to figure things out. The quickest way to do so is don't break up with her in some stupid resturant or a coffee place where you have to explain yourself, sit there and suffer. A quick drive by with your car by her house telling her its over should be fine.
 

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ryannath said:
^^^UHH, that girl is a fatass. You can tell that she eats at that place alot, McDonalds. All that fatty food is going straight to her ass. Sick.
You're nuts man. That is a work of art. Look at dem curves!!!!!! :yes: :yes: :yes:
 

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You're nuts man. That is a work of art. Look at dem curves!!!!!! :yes: :yes: :yes:
Ahhh, a man with taste...

Hell yes that ass is a work of art. It's not everyday you see a girl with an ass like that on that body.

The things I would do to that...lol
 

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I don't see how that a$$ is attractive. It looks so awkward. Like an a$$ growing out of another a$$.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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