"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Best way to pickup mall workers, baristas, waitresses?

D_Master

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This is 1 area where I have struggled. It seems to be such a short interaction that I dont know what to say or do to strike up a convo more then just casual and move it along toward getting a number.
I was just wondering what tips/advice anyone has, and would like it from people who have had it work and not just some theory they read off of some forum. I guess I'd like substance, what did you do or say that made it work vs. what you said when it didnt.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonGorgon

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Studying the fact that all lies contain fragments
1. Be extremely good looking and or rich...

2. She has "been there and done that" many times so if she shows interest move fast and sure. She has a long line of dudes to F and and if you waste time your turn will be lost to the next men..
 

hondo928

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I'm a server and when I get the oppurtunity will always flirt with female...or gay male customers for the tip. Don't judge on the gay guy thing an extra $20 in my pocket makes it worth it. I have never called any number I get at work, but DonGorgon is right on with the rich. You better tip more than 20%, at the very least tip 20% or no chance she calls you back. Also they get hit on so often they are very immune to it
 
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