Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Best way to pickup mall workers, baristas, waitresses?

D_Master

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This is 1 area where I have struggled. It seems to be such a short interaction that I dont know what to say or do to strike up a convo more then just casual and move it along toward getting a number.
I was just wondering what tips/advice anyone has, and would like it from people who have had it work and not just some theory they read off of some forum. I guess I'd like substance, what did you do or say that made it work vs. what you said when it didnt.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonGorgon

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Studying the fact that all lies contain fragments
1. Be extremely good looking and or rich...

2. She has "been there and done that" many times so if she shows interest move fast and sure. She has a long line of dudes to F and and if you waste time your turn will be lost to the next men..
 

hondo928

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I'm a server and when I get the oppurtunity will always flirt with female...or gay male customers for the tip. Don't judge on the gay guy thing an extra $20 in my pocket makes it worth it. I have never called any number I get at work, but DonGorgon is right on with the rich. You better tip more than 20%, at the very least tip 20% or no chance she calls you back. Also they get hit on so often they are very immune to it
 
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