"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Best way to pickup mall workers, baristas, waitresses?

D_Master

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 20, 2004
Messages
84
Reaction score
1
Age
44
Location
Indiana
This is 1 area where I have struggled. It seems to be such a short interaction that I dont know what to say or do to strike up a convo more then just casual and move it along toward getting a number.
I was just wondering what tips/advice anyone has, and would like it from people who have had it work and not just some theory they read off of some forum. I guess I'd like substance, what did you do or say that made it work vs. what you said when it didnt.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

DonGorgon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2007
Messages
4,679
Reaction score
102
Location
Studying the fact that all lies contain fragments
1. Be extremely good looking and or rich...

2. She has "been there and done that" many times so if she shows interest move fast and sure. She has a long line of dudes to F and and if you waste time your turn will be lost to the next men..
 

hondo928

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 17, 2008
Messages
89
Reaction score
0
I'm a server and when I get the oppurtunity will always flirt with female...or gay male customers for the tip. Don't judge on the gay guy thing an extra $20 in my pocket makes it worth it. I have never called any number I get at work, but DonGorgon is right on with the rich. You better tip more than 20%, at the very least tip 20% or no chance she calls you back. Also they get hit on so often they are very immune to it
 
Top