"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Best way to pickup mall workers, baristas, waitresses?

D_Master

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This is 1 area where I have struggled. It seems to be such a short interaction that I dont know what to say or do to strike up a convo more then just casual and move it along toward getting a number.
I was just wondering what tips/advice anyone has, and would like it from people who have had it work and not just some theory they read off of some forum. I guess I'd like substance, what did you do or say that made it work vs. what you said when it didnt.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonGorgon

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Studying the fact that all lies contain fragments
1. Be extremely good looking and or rich...

2. She has "been there and done that" many times so if she shows interest move fast and sure. She has a long line of dudes to F and and if you waste time your turn will be lost to the next men..
 

hondo928

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I'm a server and when I get the oppurtunity will always flirt with female...or gay male customers for the tip. Don't judge on the gay guy thing an extra $20 in my pocket makes it worth it. I have never called any number I get at work, but DonGorgon is right on with the rich. You better tip more than 20%, at the very least tip 20% or no chance she calls you back. Also they get hit on so often they are very immune to it
 
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