"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best Way to Meet New Women in College?

PersistenceIsKey

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I go to a medium sized university. I've done what I can in my classes to meet women (And probably found like 6 or 7 prospects so far, averaging like two a week) but I'm not sure where to go from here. I feel like I find bridges, then burn them pretty quickly.

I'm active in greek life. But greek life here consists of only a few fraternities/sororities. So you see the same people over and over again, with the exception of when new members come in.

I'm just not sure where to go from here. Doing random approaches is definitely not normal.

Suggestions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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foolyoufool

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I would try hitting up the party scene, as in non-greek parties to see if you can find girls there.

Then definitely get involved in some extra-curriculars, those are the best ways to meet quality girls (depends on the activity).

And always, make friends with girls so they can introduce you to THEIR friends!
 

collalife

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You got some options:

Join some clubs. Join organizations/student governments, but I truly recommend just working on campus and being a mentor. This will guarantee some popularity and peoples familarity with you and people will feel more comfortable around with you.

Avoid student government unless its alot of pretty girls and get the least publicized position unless your getting paid.

Join some sports, go to parties off campus.

Random approaches, yes, do them. Approach on campus, off campus, at random parties, classes, start study groups.

Hell be a tutor aim for math, alot pretty girls need help with math.

Go to organized events on campus and it is easier to approach your classmates and campus students.


You got to get over random approaches its only random if you meet them on the street, campus approaches is considered random to scary dudes but to everybody else its just conversing with people on campus.
 
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