"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Best Way to Meet New Women in College?

PersistenceIsKey

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I go to a medium sized university. I've done what I can in my classes to meet women (And probably found like 6 or 7 prospects so far, averaging like two a week) but I'm not sure where to go from here. I feel like I find bridges, then burn them pretty quickly.

I'm active in greek life. But greek life here consists of only a few fraternities/sororities. So you see the same people over and over again, with the exception of when new members come in.

I'm just not sure where to go from here. Doing random approaches is definitely not normal.

Suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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foolyoufool

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I would try hitting up the party scene, as in non-greek parties to see if you can find girls there.

Then definitely get involved in some extra-curriculars, those are the best ways to meet quality girls (depends on the activity).

And always, make friends with girls so they can introduce you to THEIR friends!
 

collalife

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You got some options:

Join some clubs. Join organizations/student governments, but I truly recommend just working on campus and being a mentor. This will guarantee some popularity and peoples familarity with you and people will feel more comfortable around with you.

Avoid student government unless its alot of pretty girls and get the least publicized position unless your getting paid.

Join some sports, go to parties off campus.

Random approaches, yes, do them. Approach on campus, off campus, at random parties, classes, start study groups.

Hell be a tutor aim for math, alot pretty girls need help with math.

Go to organized events on campus and it is easier to approach your classmates and campus students.


You got to get over random approaches its only random if you meet them on the street, campus approaches is considered random to scary dudes but to everybody else its just conversing with people on campus.
 
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