"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best Way to Meet New Women in College?

PersistenceIsKey

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I go to a medium sized university. I've done what I can in my classes to meet women (And probably found like 6 or 7 prospects so far, averaging like two a week) but I'm not sure where to go from here. I feel like I find bridges, then burn them pretty quickly.

I'm active in greek life. But greek life here consists of only a few fraternities/sororities. So you see the same people over and over again, with the exception of when new members come in.

I'm just not sure where to go from here. Doing random approaches is definitely not normal.

Suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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foolyoufool

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I would try hitting up the party scene, as in non-greek parties to see if you can find girls there.

Then definitely get involved in some extra-curriculars, those are the best ways to meet quality girls (depends on the activity).

And always, make friends with girls so they can introduce you to THEIR friends!
 

collalife

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You got some options:

Join some clubs. Join organizations/student governments, but I truly recommend just working on campus and being a mentor. This will guarantee some popularity and peoples familarity with you and people will feel more comfortable around with you.

Avoid student government unless its alot of pretty girls and get the least publicized position unless your getting paid.

Join some sports, go to parties off campus.

Random approaches, yes, do them. Approach on campus, off campus, at random parties, classes, start study groups.

Hell be a tutor aim for math, alot pretty girls need help with math.

Go to organized events on campus and it is easier to approach your classmates and campus students.


You got to get over random approaches its only random if you meet them on the street, campus approaches is considered random to scary dudes but to everybody else its just conversing with people on campus.
 
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