"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Best Way to Meet New Women in College?

PersistenceIsKey

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I go to a medium sized university. I've done what I can in my classes to meet women (And probably found like 6 or 7 prospects so far, averaging like two a week) but I'm not sure where to go from here. I feel like I find bridges, then burn them pretty quickly.

I'm active in greek life. But greek life here consists of only a few fraternities/sororities. So you see the same people over and over again, with the exception of when new members come in.

I'm just not sure where to go from here. Doing random approaches is definitely not normal.

Suggestions?
 

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foolyoufool

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I would try hitting up the party scene, as in non-greek parties to see if you can find girls there.

Then definitely get involved in some extra-curriculars, those are the best ways to meet quality girls (depends on the activity).

And always, make friends with girls so they can introduce you to THEIR friends!
 

collalife

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You got some options:

Join some clubs. Join organizations/student governments, but I truly recommend just working on campus and being a mentor. This will guarantee some popularity and peoples familarity with you and people will feel more comfortable around with you.

Avoid student government unless its alot of pretty girls and get the least publicized position unless your getting paid.

Join some sports, go to parties off campus.

Random approaches, yes, do them. Approach on campus, off campus, at random parties, classes, start study groups.

Hell be a tutor aim for math, alot pretty girls need help with math.

Go to organized events on campus and it is easier to approach your classmates and campus students.


You got to get over random approaches its only random if you meet them on the street, campus approaches is considered random to scary dudes but to everybody else its just conversing with people on campus.
 
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