SirFratserlot
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Best way to get over oneitis without seeing other girls
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
HoneyHitter
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Get serious about your no 1 hobby. Amp up your workout routine, write songs, design/market a new product, create a website,...
Just immerse yourself in something you're passionate about.
Just immerse yourself in something you're passionate about.
SirFratserlot
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I hate my college though which gives me a bitter perception constantly
Uncharted
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When people say "spin other plates" they don't just mean other women. Call your friends and go do something. Watch a movie or read a book you've always wanted to. Pick up a hobby that will involve your mind so that you spend time thinking about that instead. Treat her like she's already your ex - I'm assuming you have other exes - you don't care about them anymore right?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I remember when Britney Spears and Justin Timberlake broke up years ago. He was doing an interview as he was making a new album. The interviewer asked him if he had a new girlfriend. He said something like "I have 15 of them. The 15 songs on my new album. Those are my girlfriends right now."
Of course that album went multi-platinum and Britney went apesh*t, so I think the guy knew what he was doing.
Of course that album went multi-platinum and Britney went apesh*t, so I think the guy knew what he was doing.
plate's_empty
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I was about to say this exact same thing. All of these have been great responses. Also, find something you know you need improvement on (other than game) and work on it. Find something that motivates you and set goals for yourself, get your mind focused on something else.HoneyHitter said:
This too. If you're thinking about calling up your ex because you're horny and you're hoping she's down for a bang, instead, watch some porn with girls that are hotter than her. Afterwards you'll thank yourself.dvjackson said:
expos
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No. See the 6 months without FAP thread...I'm trying this now.plate's_empty said:This too. If you're thinking about calling up your ex because you're horny and you're hoping she's down for a bang, instead, watch some porn with girls that are hotter than her. Afterwards you'll thank yourself.
foreverAFC
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substance abuse and weight lifting, at the same time if possible
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
plate's_empty
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That's great...but if you're thinking about calling your ex....have a relapse and masturbate instead.expos said: