SirFratserlot
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Best way to get over oneitis without seeing other girls
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
HoneyHitter
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Get serious about your no 1 hobby. Amp up your workout routine, write songs, design/market a new product, create a website,...
Just immerse yourself in something you're passionate about.
Just immerse yourself in something you're passionate about.
SirFratserlot
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I hate my college though which gives me a bitter perception constantly
Uncharted
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When people say "spin other plates" they don't just mean other women. Call your friends and go do something. Watch a movie or read a book you've always wanted to. Pick up a hobby that will involve your mind so that you spend time thinking about that instead. Treat her like she's already your ex - I'm assuming you have other exes - you don't care about them anymore right?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I remember when Britney Spears and Justin Timberlake broke up years ago. He was doing an interview as he was making a new album. The interviewer asked him if he had a new girlfriend. He said something like "I have 15 of them. The 15 songs on my new album. Those are my girlfriends right now."
Of course that album went multi-platinum and Britney went apesh*t, so I think the guy knew what he was doing.
Of course that album went multi-platinum and Britney went apesh*t, so I think the guy knew what he was doing.
plate's_empty
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I was about to say this exact same thing. All of these have been great responses. Also, find something you know you need improvement on (other than game) and work on it. Find something that motivates you and set goals for yourself, get your mind focused on something else.HoneyHitter said:
This too. If you're thinking about calling up your ex because you're horny and you're hoping she's down for a bang, instead, watch some porn with girls that are hotter than her. Afterwards you'll thank yourself.dvjackson said:
expos
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No. See the 6 months without FAP thread...I'm trying this now.plate's_empty said:This too. If you're thinking about calling up your ex because you're horny and you're hoping she's down for a bang, instead, watch some porn with girls that are hotter than her. Afterwards you'll thank yourself.
foreverAFC
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substance abuse and weight lifting, at the same time if possible
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
plate's_empty
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That's great...but if you're thinking about calling your ex....have a relapse and masturbate instead.expos said: