Here's my situation. I have a lot of hot chicks that used to go to my HS as friends on Facebook; but I haven't talked to many of them in years. Most of these girls only recognize me by name pretty much. I know that once she's interested and once I've successfully opened her; I can take it from there. But what's the best way to open a girl on Facebook, who you don't know that well?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Best way to game a girl on Facebook?
- Thread starter ElStud
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
post something funny or interesting and see if they respond or comment. Or comment on some of their sh!t. Get the banter and flirt going, ask for a date and a number.
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That's a trick question: you don't "game" anyone on Facebook. Unless they're already into you, which would then make Facebook redundant and unnecessary.ElStud said:
Women's Facebook egos are like trolls; don't feed 'em. You're better off spending your energy elsewhere, like actually approaching them in person instead of being yet another random guy from high school trying to get laid with the the only interaction you've had between each other were awkward whistful glances at each other x number of years ago.
Seriously, do you think that your online "persona", the fake little version of yourself (that I might add, everyone puts up) is going to compel a woman to feel ATTRACTION for you? All it takes is a guy with a strong enough reality to break her state and f*ck her while the cute little chat box in Facebook is still open with you waiting on the other side.
A lot of my dates and lays during the past year and half have come from Facebook. I never really put much thought into opening. I just said a brief "Hello, I recognise you from ???. How's life treating you these days?" type message. If she responded, I just build up the conversation as I would in person, show interest in her, then gradually escalate to some flirting, rapport building and, if she's responding well, I'll work upto some sex talk and then ask her to meet.
Just keep it simple and be yourself. You will get ignored and rejected, but that's not because of what you're saying, it's because she's just not interested in getting to know you. Just move onto the next.
Just keep it simple and be yourself. You will get ignored and rejected, but that's not because of what you're saying, it's because she's just not interested in getting to know you. Just move onto the next.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
Yes, this is a good idea but you don't want to just leave it at that. From what I've heard and read about online dating, you NEED to differentiate yourself from the rest of the male population by being more creative and unique. Maybe tell the girl something funny you remember about her, or mention something that happened to you awhile ago. That would be an easy way into rapport.ElStud said: