Here's my situation. I have a lot of hot chicks that used to go to my HS as friends on Facebook; but I haven't talked to many of them in years. Most of these girls only recognize me by name pretty much. I know that once she's interested and once I've successfully opened her; I can take it from there. But what's the best way to open a girl on Facebook, who you don't know that well?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Best way to game a girl on Facebook?
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
post something funny or interesting and see if they respond or comment. Or comment on some of their sh!t. Get the banter and flirt going, ask for a date and a number.
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That's a trick question: you don't "game" anyone on Facebook. Unless they're already into you, which would then make Facebook redundant and unnecessary.ElStud said:
Women's Facebook egos are like trolls; don't feed 'em. You're better off spending your energy elsewhere, like actually approaching them in person instead of being yet another random guy from high school trying to get laid with the the only interaction you've had between each other were awkward whistful glances at each other x number of years ago.
Seriously, do you think that your online "persona", the fake little version of yourself (that I might add, everyone puts up) is going to compel a woman to feel ATTRACTION for you? All it takes is a guy with a strong enough reality to break her state and f*ck her while the cute little chat box in Facebook is still open with you waiting on the other side.
A lot of my dates and lays during the past year and half have come from Facebook. I never really put much thought into opening. I just said a brief "Hello, I recognise you from ???. How's life treating you these days?" type message. If she responded, I just build up the conversation as I would in person, show interest in her, then gradually escalate to some flirting, rapport building and, if she's responding well, I'll work upto some sex talk and then ask her to meet.
Just keep it simple and be yourself. You will get ignored and rejected, but that's not because of what you're saying, it's because she's just not interested in getting to know you. Just move onto the next.
Just keep it simple and be yourself. You will get ignored and rejected, but that's not because of what you're saying, it's because she's just not interested in getting to know you. Just move onto the next.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
Yes, this is a good idea but you don't want to just leave it at that. From what I've heard and read about online dating, you NEED to differentiate yourself from the rest of the male population by being more creative and unique. Maybe tell the girl something funny you remember about her, or mention something that happened to you awhile ago. That would be an easy way into rapport.ElStud said: