Here's my situation. I have a lot of hot chicks that used to go to my HS as friends on Facebook; but I haven't talked to many of them in years. Most of these girls only recognize me by name pretty much. I know that once she's interested and once I've successfully opened her; I can take it from there. But what's the best way to open a girl on Facebook, who you don't know that well?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Best way to game a girl on Facebook?
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
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PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
post something funny or interesting and see if they respond or comment. Or comment on some of their sh!t. Get the banter and flirt going, ask for a date and a number.
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That's a trick question: you don't "game" anyone on Facebook. Unless they're already into you, which would then make Facebook redundant and unnecessary.ElStud said:
Women's Facebook egos are like trolls; don't feed 'em. You're better off spending your energy elsewhere, like actually approaching them in person instead of being yet another random guy from high school trying to get laid with the the only interaction you've had between each other were awkward whistful glances at each other x number of years ago.
Seriously, do you think that your online "persona", the fake little version of yourself (that I might add, everyone puts up) is going to compel a woman to feel ATTRACTION for you? All it takes is a guy with a strong enough reality to break her state and f*ck her while the cute little chat box in Facebook is still open with you waiting on the other side.
A lot of my dates and lays during the past year and half have come from Facebook. I never really put much thought into opening. I just said a brief "Hello, I recognise you from ???. How's life treating you these days?" type message. If she responded, I just build up the conversation as I would in person, show interest in her, then gradually escalate to some flirting, rapport building and, if she's responding well, I'll work upto some sex talk and then ask her to meet.
Just keep it simple and be yourself. You will get ignored and rejected, but that's not because of what you're saying, it's because she's just not interested in getting to know you. Just move onto the next.
Just keep it simple and be yourself. You will get ignored and rejected, but that's not because of what you're saying, it's because she's just not interested in getting to know you. Just move onto the next.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
Yes, this is a good idea but you don't want to just leave it at that. From what I've heard and read about online dating, you NEED to differentiate yourself from the rest of the male population by being more creative and unique. Maybe tell the girl something funny you remember about her, or mention something that happened to you awhile ago. That would be an easy way into rapport.ElStud said: