Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Best US cities in terms of parties, fun people, and a great time.

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Lets face it, some of us do not want to end up as the 30 something married guy with two kids and a post wall wife.

A good number of us want to party, get laid a ton, and hopefully make friends along the way with guys who also want to enjoy that sort of lifestyle. Obviously the puritians on this forum are going to tell guys like us to "grow up", "find better things to do in life", and "get married to that post wall slut" but I have other ideas.

Before you go on your journey for the fun life, remember the important of location.

That's right, you're not going to be having much luck in conservative towns loaded with flat boring people that look down on making new friends, partying, and getting out of their tight knit social circles. Time and time again, you're going to run into situations where guys uglier than you are going to end up ****ing the hot girls in town because of their good ol boy status or some other nonsense. The same good ol boy would not hold a candle to a DJ like you in a big city where they can't rely on their small town clique as much.

Here is my list of best US cities for guys who are looking to chase the parties, fun times, make friends with fun people, and most importantly sleep with a ton of girls.

New York City (duh!)
Chicago
Las Vegas
New Orleans
Miami
Austin
Ann Arbor, Michigan (College town but still, very good for people that don't go to UM)
Charleston
Nashville

Feel free to add to this list.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NYC is tough if you're not mega loaded.

St. Petersburg I heard is really great and the women there are hot as fug.

Funny no California cities on this list...lol. I would have to put LA or San Diego on the list. I've dated many girls from LA, and one of my current plates lives there. If you go out in Hollywood you'll have an amazing time. As for San Diego, it's a great city if you love white women.

Additionally, Portland and Washington DC are supposed to be pretty good. Phoenix can be good but you have to find the right place with the right crowd.
 

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Vegas, Miami, Toronto
 

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Sixth Street in Austin. Had so much fun partying there. It helped having a Brit accent also.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No ****ing way, only city listed on here (other than maybe Toronto) that I disagree with. Too many SJWs, tons of ghetto trash, and tons of cliquish bible thumpers. Atlanta is pretty much the worst of all the worlds and if you aren't into black women, the quality of women in that city is horrible. I cannot believe (likely Georgia boosters) spam that piece of **** city all over, attempting to make it seem like it is a good place.

**** no, Atlanta is a trashy ****hole with a mixture of ghetto and trailer trash culture, hands down one of the worst major cities in the entire country.
 

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NYC is tough if you're not mega loaded.

St. Petersburg I heard is really great and the women there are hot as fug.

Funny no California cities on this list...lol. I would have to put LA or San Diego on the list. I've dated many girls from LA, and one of my current plates lives there. If you go out in Hollywood you'll have an amazing time. As for San Diego, it's a great city if you love white women.

Additionally, Portland and Washington DC are supposed to be pretty good. Phoenix can be good but you have to find the right place with the right crowd.
I thought you said you struggled a lot with white women due to being an Indian guy in California.
 

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Detroit, Michigan.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I thought you said you struggled a lot with white women due to being an Indian guy in California.
I never said I've dated a lot of white women. My current plate is Latina.

In San Diego the hottest women are white but I haven't had success with them as they only go for white guys.
 

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No ****ing way, only city listed on here (other than maybe Toronto) that I disagree with. Too many SJWs, tons of ghetto trash, and tons of cliquish bible thumpers. Atlanta is pretty much the worst of all the worlds and if you aren't into black women, the quality of women in that city is horrible. I cannot believe (likely Georgia boosters) spam that piece of **** city all over, attempting to make it seem like it is a good place.

**** no, Atlanta is a trashy ****hole with a mixture of ghetto and trailer trash culture, hands down one of the worst major cities in the entire country.
Sounds like you couldn't get any play in Atlanta
 

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lol GTFO, that city is garbage.

You're dealing with hood rats in most places that you go to party at. Tons of post grads who were in Greek Life back in college and still keep that same cliquish mindset, very hard to make friends. Lots of bible thumpers that will consider you satan for wanting to get wasted and sleep around.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol GTFO, that city is garbage.

You're dealing with hood rats in most places that you go to party at. Tons of post grads who were in Greek Life back in college and still keep that same cliquish mindset, very hard to make friends. Lots of bible thumpers that will consider you satan for wanting to get wasted and sleep around.
Forbes lists Atlanta as the #1 city for singles for 2016

http://www.forbes.com/sites/karstenstrauss/2016/02/03/the-12-best-cities-for-singles/#68610432a19d

if you cant get play in ATL you have no game.
 

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Chicago has a top 5 nightlife for sure, although I am tired of it cause I been here for 30 years
 

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What about Miami?
 

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Any dumb site can list cities out like that, it is bro science. Plus most of the times it is cities that are good for single women, not really single men.

Anyone can get play in the ATL, problem is that the quality there absolutely sucks.
There are 5 million+ people in the metro area. There are plenty of quality women here. If you cant get quality women here then you are a loser.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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