"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Best US cities in terms of parties, fun people, and a great time.

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Lets face it, some of us do not want to end up as the 30 something married guy with two kids and a post wall wife.

A good number of us want to party, get laid a ton, and hopefully make friends along the way with guys who also want to enjoy that sort of lifestyle. Obviously the puritians on this forum are going to tell guys like us to "grow up", "find better things to do in life", and "get married to that post wall slut" but I have other ideas.

Before you go on your journey for the fun life, remember the important of location.

That's right, you're not going to be having much luck in conservative towns loaded with flat boring people that look down on making new friends, partying, and getting out of their tight knit social circles. Time and time again, you're going to run into situations where guys uglier than you are going to end up ****ing the hot girls in town because of their good ol boy status or some other nonsense. The same good ol boy would not hold a candle to a DJ like you in a big city where they can't rely on their small town clique as much.

Here is my list of best US cities for guys who are looking to chase the parties, fun times, make friends with fun people, and most importantly sleep with a ton of girls.

New York City (duh!)
Chicago
Las Vegas
New Orleans
Miami
Austin
Ann Arbor, Michigan (College town but still, very good for people that don't go to UM)
Charleston
Nashville

Feel free to add to this list.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NYC is tough if you're not mega loaded.

St. Petersburg I heard is really great and the women there are hot as fug.

Funny no California cities on this list...lol. I would have to put LA or San Diego on the list. I've dated many girls from LA, and one of my current plates lives there. If you go out in Hollywood you'll have an amazing time. As for San Diego, it's a great city if you love white women.

Additionally, Portland and Washington DC are supposed to be pretty good. Phoenix can be good but you have to find the right place with the right crowd.
 

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Vegas, Miami, Toronto
 

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Sixth Street in Austin. Had so much fun partying there. It helped having a Brit accent also.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No ****ing way, only city listed on here (other than maybe Toronto) that I disagree with. Too many SJWs, tons of ghetto trash, and tons of cliquish bible thumpers. Atlanta is pretty much the worst of all the worlds and if you aren't into black women, the quality of women in that city is horrible. I cannot believe (likely Georgia boosters) spam that piece of **** city all over, attempting to make it seem like it is a good place.

**** no, Atlanta is a trashy ****hole with a mixture of ghetto and trailer trash culture, hands down one of the worst major cities in the entire country.
 

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NYC is tough if you're not mega loaded.

St. Petersburg I heard is really great and the women there are hot as fug.

Funny no California cities on this list...lol. I would have to put LA or San Diego on the list. I've dated many girls from LA, and one of my current plates lives there. If you go out in Hollywood you'll have an amazing time. As for San Diego, it's a great city if you love white women.

Additionally, Portland and Washington DC are supposed to be pretty good. Phoenix can be good but you have to find the right place with the right crowd.
I thought you said you struggled a lot with white women due to being an Indian guy in California.
 

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Detroit, Michigan.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I thought you said you struggled a lot with white women due to being an Indian guy in California.
I never said I've dated a lot of white women. My current plate is Latina.

In San Diego the hottest women are white but I haven't had success with them as they only go for white guys.
 

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No ****ing way, only city listed on here (other than maybe Toronto) that I disagree with. Too many SJWs, tons of ghetto trash, and tons of cliquish bible thumpers. Atlanta is pretty much the worst of all the worlds and if you aren't into black women, the quality of women in that city is horrible. I cannot believe (likely Georgia boosters) spam that piece of **** city all over, attempting to make it seem like it is a good place.

**** no, Atlanta is a trashy ****hole with a mixture of ghetto and trailer trash culture, hands down one of the worst major cities in the entire country.
Sounds like you couldn't get any play in Atlanta
 

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lol GTFO, that city is garbage.

You're dealing with hood rats in most places that you go to party at. Tons of post grads who were in Greek Life back in college and still keep that same cliquish mindset, very hard to make friends. Lots of bible thumpers that will consider you satan for wanting to get wasted and sleep around.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lol GTFO, that city is garbage.

You're dealing with hood rats in most places that you go to party at. Tons of post grads who were in Greek Life back in college and still keep that same cliquish mindset, very hard to make friends. Lots of bible thumpers that will consider you satan for wanting to get wasted and sleep around.
Forbes lists Atlanta as the #1 city for singles for 2016

http://www.forbes.com/sites/karstenstrauss/2016/02/03/the-12-best-cities-for-singles/#68610432a19d

if you cant get play in ATL you have no game.
 

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Chicago has a top 5 nightlife for sure, although I am tired of it cause I been here for 30 years
 

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What about Miami?
 

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Any dumb site can list cities out like that, it is bro science. Plus most of the times it is cities that are good for single women, not really single men.

Anyone can get play in the ATL, problem is that the quality there absolutely sucks.
There are 5 million+ people in the metro area. There are plenty of quality women here. If you cant get quality women here then you are a loser.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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