"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheFlyingMan

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I was talking with this chick I'm working on when I casually mentioned that another chick chatted me up and gave me her number at the gym earlier today.

She asked me if that chick was prettier then she was. What was the best reply?

I pretended to be shocked and said "er...that's like asking me if she's taller then Joanne"...Joanne being one of our mutual friends who's like 5' 2". She pretended to be pissed off, but this is normal, I do this to her all the time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rata Blanca

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Well women normally pull the "jealous card" pretty much the same way you did. Perhaps you can give her a taste or her own medicine...
 
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I'd just be honest. The last thing you want is to be guilted into giving her a compliment because you don't want to offend her. If the other girl is actually prettier than her, you can always save it...

Her: Is she prettier than me?
Me: Well, yes, obviously, but you're more ATTRACTIVE ;)

That'll confuse the hell out of her, and you won't be suckered into her mind games.

Syn.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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her: "is she prettier then me?"
you (while giving her a guffy look): "what am i, stupid?":confused: :rolleyes:
 
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her: "is she prettier then me?"
you: What? are you like five?
 
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of course she is.. your a frikkin minger *grin

Never take the bait and compliment them.
Some of my recent ones...

Her: 'I think i might be a bit too old for you...'
Yeah.. probably...

Her: 'You never flirt with me... dont u fancy me?'
Awww, dont worry. Youd still get it.. i'm not that fussy

Her:'I think my personality is the best thing about me, what do u think?'
Nah.. i'd have said that was your biggest shortcoming..

*fit b****: 'I really love my body! What do u think?'
mmm.. u could do with a bit more meat on your bones, your built like a whippet!
 
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Its not good advise to be honest. Don't give a direct answer. Joke it off.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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THE_ADDMAN

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"ehh you're kinda cute :)"

draw out "kinda" if you're feeling particularly sly
 
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