"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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TheFlyingMan

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I was talking with this chick I'm working on when I casually mentioned that another chick chatted me up and gave me her number at the gym earlier today.

She asked me if that chick was prettier then she was. What was the best reply?

I pretended to be shocked and said "er...that's like asking me if she's taller then Joanne"...Joanne being one of our mutual friends who's like 5' 2". She pretended to be pissed off, but this is normal, I do this to her all the time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rata Blanca

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Well women normally pull the "jealous card" pretty much the same way you did. Perhaps you can give her a taste or her own medicine...
 
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I'd just be honest. The last thing you want is to be guilted into giving her a compliment because you don't want to offend her. If the other girl is actually prettier than her, you can always save it...

Her: Is she prettier than me?
Me: Well, yes, obviously, but you're more ATTRACTIVE ;)

That'll confuse the hell out of her, and you won't be suckered into her mind games.

Syn.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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her: "is she prettier then me?"
you (while giving her a guffy look): "what am i, stupid?":confused: :rolleyes:
 
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her: "is she prettier then me?"
you: What? are you like five?
 
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of course she is.. your a frikkin minger *grin

Never take the bait and compliment them.
Some of my recent ones...

Her: 'I think i might be a bit too old for you...'
Yeah.. probably...

Her: 'You never flirt with me... dont u fancy me?'
Awww, dont worry. Youd still get it.. i'm not that fussy

Her:'I think my personality is the best thing about me, what do u think?'
Nah.. i'd have said that was your biggest shortcoming..

*fit b****: 'I really love my body! What do u think?'
mmm.. u could do with a bit more meat on your bones, your built like a whippet!
 
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Its not good advise to be honest. Don't give a direct answer. Joke it off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"ehh you're kinda cute :)"

draw out "kinda" if you're feeling particularly sly
 
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