Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TheFlyingMan

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I was talking with this chick I'm working on when I casually mentioned that another chick chatted me up and gave me her number at the gym earlier today.

She asked me if that chick was prettier then she was. What was the best reply?

I pretended to be shocked and said "er...that's like asking me if she's taller then Joanne"...Joanne being one of our mutual friends who's like 5' 2". She pretended to be pissed off, but this is normal, I do this to her all the time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rata Blanca

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Well women normally pull the "jealous card" pretty much the same way you did. Perhaps you can give her a taste or her own medicine...
 
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I'd just be honest. The last thing you want is to be guilted into giving her a compliment because you don't want to offend her. If the other girl is actually prettier than her, you can always save it...

Her: Is she prettier than me?
Me: Well, yes, obviously, but you're more ATTRACTIVE ;)

That'll confuse the hell out of her, and you won't be suckered into her mind games.

Syn.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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her: "is she prettier then me?"
you (while giving her a guffy look): "what am i, stupid?":confused: :rolleyes:
 
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her: "is she prettier then me?"
you: What? are you like five?
 
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of course she is.. your a frikkin minger *grin

Never take the bait and compliment them.
Some of my recent ones...

Her: 'I think i might be a bit too old for you...'
Yeah.. probably...

Her: 'You never flirt with me... dont u fancy me?'
Awww, dont worry. Youd still get it.. i'm not that fussy

Her:'I think my personality is the best thing about me, what do u think?'
Nah.. i'd have said that was your biggest shortcoming..

*fit b****: 'I really love my body! What do u think?'
mmm.. u could do with a bit more meat on your bones, your built like a whippet!
 
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Its not good advise to be honest. Don't give a direct answer. Joke it off.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"ehh you're kinda cute :)"

draw out "kinda" if you're feeling particularly sly
 
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