"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Best Friend and my now ex

rawson-1992

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Around a month and a half ago my best friend slept with my ex after I had been dating her for 4 months and carried on seeing for around a month a month and a half after that. Anyway, at the weekend I bumped into her in a club and heard they had fallen out that night and she was blowing off steam in the club. One thing lead to another and I ended up sleeping with her twice.

Does this make me an ******* and a scumbag or is it acceptable as he did the same thing to me? I don't want anything to do with the girl anymore. I guess 30% of it felt like revenge and the rest was because I still have feelings for the girl.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thunder_god

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I say **** both of them. Your best friend isn't your best friend if he's going around screwing your gf. What kind of a best friend risks ruining a lifelong friendship just for some *****?
 

Cerwin Vega

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If your 'best friend' calls you out on it, punch him in the face.
 

3agle 3yes

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What is the truth OP? Because you contradict yourself in the second paragraph.

On the one hand you say:
rawson-1992 said:
I don't want anything to do with the girl anymore...
Then you say:
rawson-1992 said:
...I still have feelings for the girl.
IMO relationships are overrated, and most people jump into them prematurely. Just because your f*cking a girl doesn't mean she has to be your gf.

Your friend knew what he was getting into when he slept with her behind your back.

If you weren't there she probably would've f*cked somebody else anyway.

Move on...
 

rawson-1992

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3agle 3yes said:
What is the truth OP? Because you contradict yourself in the second paragraph.

On the one hand you say:Then you say:
IMO relationships are overrated, and most people jump into them prematurely. Just because your f*cking a girl doesn't mean she has to be your gf.

Your friend knew what he was getting into when he slept with her behind your back.

If you weren't there she probably would've f*cked somebody else anyway.

Move on...
I wouldn't agree with that, you can have feelings for someone but want anything to do with them because I know how poisonous she is.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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