Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Best Friend and my now ex

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Around a month and a half ago my best friend slept with my ex after I had been dating her for 4 months and carried on seeing for around a month a month and a half after that. Anyway, at the weekend I bumped into her in a club and heard they had fallen out that night and she was blowing off steam in the club. One thing lead to another and I ended up sleeping with her twice.

Does this make me an ******* and a scumbag or is it acceptable as he did the same thing to me? I don't want anything to do with the girl anymore. I guess 30% of it felt like revenge and the rest was because I still have feelings for the girl.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I say **** both of them. Your best friend isn't your best friend if he's going around screwing your gf. What kind of a best friend risks ruining a lifelong friendship just for some *****?
 
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If your 'best friend' calls you out on it, punch him in the face.
 
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What is the truth OP? Because you contradict yourself in the second paragraph.

On the one hand you say:
rawson-1992 said:
I don't want anything to do with the girl anymore...
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Then you say:
rawson-1992 said:
...I still have feelings for the girl.
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IMO relationships are overrated, and most people jump into them prematurely. Just because your f*cking a girl doesn't mean she has to be your gf.

Your friend knew what he was getting into when he slept with her behind your back.

If you weren't there she probably would've f*cked somebody else anyway.

Move on...
 
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3agle 3yes said:
What is the truth OP? Because you contradict yourself in the second paragraph.

On the one hand you say:Then you say:
IMO relationships are overrated, and most people jump into them prematurely. Just because your f*cking a girl doesn't mean she has to be your gf.

Your friend knew what he was getting into when he slept with her behind your back.

If you weren't there she probably would've f*cked somebody else anyway.

Move on...
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I wouldn't agree with that, you can have feelings for someone but want anything to do with them because I know how poisonous she is.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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