"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best Friend and my now ex

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Around a month and a half ago my best friend slept with my ex after I had been dating her for 4 months and carried on seeing for around a month a month and a half after that. Anyway, at the weekend I bumped into her in a club and heard they had fallen out that night and she was blowing off steam in the club. One thing lead to another and I ended up sleeping with her twice.

Does this make me an ******* and a scumbag or is it acceptable as he did the same thing to me? I don't want anything to do with the girl anymore. I guess 30% of it felt like revenge and the rest was because I still have feelings for the girl.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I say **** both of them. Your best friend isn't your best friend if he's going around screwing your gf. What kind of a best friend risks ruining a lifelong friendship just for some *****?
 
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If your 'best friend' calls you out on it, punch him in the face.
 
3agle 3yes

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What is the truth OP? Because you contradict yourself in the second paragraph.

On the one hand you say:
rawson-1992 said:
I don't want anything to do with the girl anymore...
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Then you say:
rawson-1992 said:
...I still have feelings for the girl.
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IMO relationships are overrated, and most people jump into them prematurely. Just because your f*cking a girl doesn't mean she has to be your gf.

Your friend knew what he was getting into when he slept with her behind your back.

If you weren't there she probably would've f*cked somebody else anyway.

Move on...
 
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3agle 3yes said:
What is the truth OP? Because you contradict yourself in the second paragraph.

On the one hand you say:Then you say:
IMO relationships are overrated, and most people jump into them prematurely. Just because your f*cking a girl doesn't mean she has to be your gf.

Your friend knew what he was getting into when he slept with her behind your back.

If you weren't there she probably would've f*cked somebody else anyway.

Move on...
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I wouldn't agree with that, you can have feelings for someone but want anything to do with them because I know how poisonous she is.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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