Best Friend and my now ex

[rawson-1992]

Around a month and a half ago my best friend slept with my ex after I had been dating her for 4 months and carried on seeing for around a month a month and a half after that. Anyway, at the weekend I bumped into her in a club and heard they had fallen out that night and she was blowing off steam in the club. One thing lead to another and I ended up sleeping with her twice.

Does this make me an ******* and a scumbag or is it acceptable as he did the same thing to me? I don't want anything to do with the girl anymore. I guess 30% of it felt like revenge and the rest was because I still have feelings for the girl.

 

[thunder_god]

I say **** both of them. Your best friend isn't your best friend if he's going around screwing your gf. What kind of a best friend risks ruining a lifelong friendship just for some *****?

 

[Cerwin Vega]

If your 'best friend' calls you out on it, punch him in the face.

 

[3agle 3yes]

What is the truth OP? Because you contradict yourself in the second paragraph.

On the one hand you say:

I don't want anything to do with the girl anymore...

Then you say:

...I still have feelings for the girl.

IMO relationships are overrated, and most people jump into them prematurely. Just because your f*cking a girl doesn't mean she has to be your gf.

Your friend knew what he was getting into when he slept with her behind your back.

If you weren't there she probably would've f*cked somebody else anyway.

Move on...

 

[rawson-1992]

What is the truth OP? Because you contradict yourself in the second paragraph.

On the one hand you say:Then you say:
IMO relationships are overrated, and most people jump into them prematurely. Just because your f*cking a girl doesn't mean she has to be your gf.

Your friend knew what he was getting into when he slept with her behind your back.

If you weren't there she probably would've f*cked somebody else anyway.

Move on...

I wouldn't agree with that, you can have feelings for someone but want anything to do with them because I know how poisonous she is.