"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Best albums of 2006
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My vote goes to the Game's New CD - Doctor's Advocate.
Along with Jay-z Kingdom come
You and your Asians... I don't know anything but the Strokes on that list.
Whatever happened to you man, you used to be pretty cool, I still rememember that "Accidental slip in while foreplay" technique
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The only album I've spent my cash on in 5 years ( since Lateralus ).
REd-xL
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I'm still pretty cool. I'm just older. I joined this forum when I was 18. I turn 25 next month. I'm dealing with too many things in life these days to contend with the DJ forums. Stop by every now and then, was planning on writing a really comprehensive essay on the things I've learned over the last several years.Oxide said:Look who crawled from the attic.
Whatever happened to you man, you used to be pretty cool, I still rememember that "Accidental slip in while foreplay" technique
Belle & Sebastian - The Life Pursuit
Destroyer - Rubies
His Name Is Alive - Detrola
Islands- Return to the sea
Morrissey - Ringlinder of the Tormentors
The Zutons - Tired of hanging around
In no particular order
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LA_Chico
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TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
Nas - Hip Hop is Dead
Lupe Fiasco - Food and Liquor
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
That new paris hilton one was pretty damn good too.
comic_relief
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Oxide said:
CrunchyNut
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Muse-Black Holes and Revelations
Zutons-Tired of Hanging Around
The Feeling-12 Stops and Home
OSB-Transitions
Embrace-This New Day
Delays-You See Colours
Kasabian-Empire
Thom Yorke-Eraser
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
CrunchyNut said:
Pretty good cd.
REd-xL
Master Don Juan
My life revolves around music, just not professionally. I write articles and reviews for some zines, keep an mp3 blog, and make a little (****ty) music of my own on the side. I eat, sleep, and breathe music. I kept count, and I've listened to over 1200 albums this year alone. It's easy enough to do when 90% of it only gets one spin because I end up disliking most of what I hear. But coming across that 10% is what keeps me going...at the gym, in the car, falling asleep, etc.Ricky said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.