"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Look who crawled from the attic.

My vote goes to the Game's New CD - Doctor's Advocate.
Along with Jay-z Kingdom come

You and your Asians... I don't know anything but the Strokes on that list.
Whatever happened to you man, you used to be pretty cool, I still rememember that "Accidental slip in while foreplay" technique ;)
 

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Oxide said:
Look who crawled from the attic.

Whatever happened to you man, you used to be pretty cool, I still rememember that "Accidental slip in while foreplay" technique ;)
I'm still pretty cool. I'm just older. I joined this forum when I was 18. I turn 25 next month. I'm dealing with too many things in life these days to contend with the DJ forums. Stop by every now and then, was planning on writing a really comprehensive essay on the things I've learned over the last several years.
 

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Shout out louds - Howl Howl Gaff Gaff
Belle & Sebastian - The Life Pursuit
Destroyer - Rubies
His Name Is Alive - Detrola
Islands- Return to the sea
Morrissey - Ringlinder of the Tormentors
The Zutons - Tired of hanging around

In no particular order
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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REd-xL said:
I'm still pretty cool. I'm just older. I joined this forum when I was 18. I turn 25 next month. I'm dealing with too many things in life these days to contend with the DJ forums. Stop by every now and then, was planning on writing a really comprehensive essay on the things I've learned over the last several years.
Dude I would LOVE to read that, seriously, I think you have a lot of practical advice, so yeah get on that!
 

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"When your heart stops beating"- +44
 

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Tool - 10,000 days

Nas - Hip Hop is Dead

Lupe Fiasco - Food and Liquor
 

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Cheap Sex - Written in Blood

That new paris hilton one was pretty damn good too.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Oxide said:
Look who crawled from the attic.

My vote goes to the Game's New CD - Doctor's Advocate.
Along with Jay-z Kingdom come

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The new game cd is wack as a motherf.ucker. I listened to every song, and I'd be just fine if I never heard a single one of them ever again. Same with the new Lloyd Banks. Hunger for More was badass, then he comes out with the Rotten Apple horses.hit! Boring beats, no catchy lyrics on both of those cds.
 

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Razorlight-Razorlight
Muse-Black Holes and Revelations
Zutons-Tired of Hanging Around
The Feeling-12 Stops and Home
OSB-Transitions
Embrace-This New Day
Delays-You See Colours
Kasabian-Empire
Thom Yorke-Eraser
 

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I've only heard of one of those bands in that top 50 list. I don't think I've listened to 50 albums this year. Where do you find that time? Impressive list, you must be in the business?
 

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Ricky said:
I've only heard of one of those bands in that top 50 list. I don't think I've listened to 50 albums this year. Where do you find that time? Impressive list, you must be in the business?
My life revolves around music, just not professionally. I write articles and reviews for some zines, keep an mp3 blog, and make a little (****ty) music of my own on the side. I eat, sleep, and breathe music. I kept count, and I've listened to over 1200 albums this year alone. It's easy enough to do when 90% of it only gets one spin because I end up disliking most of what I hear. But coming across that 10% is what keeps me going...at the gym, in the car, falling asleep, etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tool 10,000 Days.....by a landslide
 
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