"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best 2 books that you've ever read on game

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Best books I ever read concerning game are:

1. The Game - Neil Strauss
2. Pimp - Iceberg Slim

The Game, because it's so chock-full of game. For example, this excerpt:

"I liked style right away. He was obviously very practiced at making people like him. He made me feel important. He had a way of summing up my clunkily expressed ideas into simple, beautiful statements - all the while attributing the eloquence back to me. He was the perfect accomplice for an up-and-coming guru."

Pimp is just over-the-top in how to be an ice cold alpha male. Read it and felt like I had snorted a line of coke for the next 2 weeks.

If you had to choose 2 books that you were most impressed with game-wise, what would they be?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pook, and Doc Love's System

The DJ bible, and the actual bible (English Standard Version)
 

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Style had some vids out. They were pretty good. Modified mystery method is still a good framework. Bobby Rio had some good stuff on conversational skills and story telling. I found the female PUAs completely useless oddly enough.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A few guys here rep Doc Love. Is his stuff any different from antidump s material?
 

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There was also an old Sir chance alot thread on how to seks up a woman. It went for pages and was on the money. If you're in an ltr that would go a long way to keeping your woman interested in the D.
 

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Love Secrets of Don Juan - Tim Lott
The Alabaster Girl - Zan Perrion
The Rational Male (Part One) - Rollo
The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle (not game related, but definitive inner game material)
The 3% Man - Corey Wayne
Great Expectations - Charles ****ens
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The book of pook was an eye opener for me. Weapons of mass seduction is also spot on!!
 

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I absolutely refuse to read 'Coach Corey'. Is Models any good?
Models really up there among the best imo.

Basically what it says is that you should just express yourself when screening for women. Because women either have 3 modes of thought towards you: like, dislike, or neutral.

So when you talk you should express yourself in order to polarize them from neutral to either like or dislike. That's basically the jist of it. Not bad as it means that you can be yourself.

I would have to say though that occasionally game is better. For example using a "boyfriend destroyer pattern", as mentioned in The Game, can be pretty darn useful. Something that's not really my personal style, but I think I ought to incorporate it into my game lol.
 

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I have a copy of The Game at home, but never got round to reading it properly. Can anyone recommend?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Practical Female psychology for the practical man. I don't know who stole from whom. It is an updated version of bonecrackers material. Less political and more tactical. Most of the senior guys here have repped it at some point.

For the LTR focused guys we should mention Athol Kay's books. Couple of the long married members rep.

Has anyone ever read Rollo s 2nd book. Rational Male an ounce of prevention? If it's half way decent I ll buy it to pay the guy back for his work.
 

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Oh and +1 for weapons of mass seduction. Plenty of how to and more importantly how to practice. I don't know if Senor Fingers was the best pants man ever or just compiled but either way required reading.
 
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