Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Best 2 books that you've ever read on game

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Best books I ever read concerning game are:

1. The Game - Neil Strauss
2. Pimp - Iceberg Slim

The Game, because it's so chock-full of game. For example, this excerpt:

"I liked style right away. He was obviously very practiced at making people like him. He made me feel important. He had a way of summing up my clunkily expressed ideas into simple, beautiful statements - all the while attributing the eloquence back to me. He was the perfect accomplice for an up-and-coming guru."

Pimp is just over-the-top in how to be an ice cold alpha male. Read it and felt like I had snorted a line of coke for the next 2 weeks.

If you had to choose 2 books that you were most impressed with game-wise, what would they be?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pook, and Doc Love's System

The DJ bible, and the actual bible (English Standard Version)
 

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Style had some vids out. They were pretty good. Modified mystery method is still a good framework. Bobby Rio had some good stuff on conversational skills and story telling. I found the female PUAs completely useless oddly enough.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A few guys here rep Doc Love. Is his stuff any different from antidump s material?
 

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There was also an old Sir chance alot thread on how to seks up a woman. It went for pages and was on the money. If you're in an ltr that would go a long way to keeping your woman interested in the D.
 

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Love Secrets of Don Juan - Tim Lott
The Alabaster Girl - Zan Perrion
The Rational Male (Part One) - Rollo
The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle (not game related, but definitive inner game material)
The 3% Man - Corey Wayne
Great Expectations - Charles ****ens
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The book of pook was an eye opener for me. Weapons of mass seduction is also spot on!!
 

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I absolutely refuse to read 'Coach Corey'. Is Models any good?
Models really up there among the best imo.

Basically what it says is that you should just express yourself when screening for women. Because women either have 3 modes of thought towards you: like, dislike, or neutral.

So when you talk you should express yourself in order to polarize them from neutral to either like or dislike. That's basically the jist of it. Not bad as it means that you can be yourself.

I would have to say though that occasionally game is better. For example using a "boyfriend destroyer pattern", as mentioned in The Game, can be pretty darn useful. Something that's not really my personal style, but I think I ought to incorporate it into my game lol.
 

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I have a copy of The Game at home, but never got round to reading it properly. Can anyone recommend?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Practical Female psychology for the practical man. I don't know who stole from whom. It is an updated version of bonecrackers material. Less political and more tactical. Most of the senior guys here have repped it at some point.

For the LTR focused guys we should mention Athol Kay's books. Couple of the long married members rep.

Has anyone ever read Rollo s 2nd book. Rational Male an ounce of prevention? If it's half way decent I ll buy it to pay the guy back for his work.
 

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Oh and +1 for weapons of mass seduction. Plenty of how to and more importantly how to practice. I don't know if Senor Fingers was the best pants man ever or just compiled but either way required reading.
 
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