"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Best 2 books that you've ever read on game

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Best books I ever read concerning game are:

1. The Game - Neil Strauss
2. Pimp - Iceberg Slim

The Game, because it's so chock-full of game. For example, this excerpt:

"I liked style right away. He was obviously very practiced at making people like him. He made me feel important. He had a way of summing up my clunkily expressed ideas into simple, beautiful statements - all the while attributing the eloquence back to me. He was the perfect accomplice for an up-and-coming guru."

Pimp is just over-the-top in how to be an ice cold alpha male. Read it and felt like I had snorted a line of coke for the next 2 weeks.

If you had to choose 2 books that you were most impressed with game-wise, what would they be?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pook, and Doc Love's System

The DJ bible, and the actual bible (English Standard Version)
 

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Style had some vids out. They were pretty good. Modified mystery method is still a good framework. Bobby Rio had some good stuff on conversational skills and story telling. I found the female PUAs completely useless oddly enough.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A few guys here rep Doc Love. Is his stuff any different from antidump s material?
 

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There was also an old Sir chance alot thread on how to seks up a woman. It went for pages and was on the money. If you're in an ltr that would go a long way to keeping your woman interested in the D.
 

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Love Secrets of Don Juan - Tim Lott
The Alabaster Girl - Zan Perrion
The Rational Male (Part One) - Rollo
The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle (not game related, but definitive inner game material)
The 3% Man - Corey Wayne
Great Expectations - Charles ****ens
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The book of pook was an eye opener for me. Weapons of mass seduction is also spot on!!
 

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I absolutely refuse to read 'Coach Corey'. Is Models any good?
Models really up there among the best imo.

Basically what it says is that you should just express yourself when screening for women. Because women either have 3 modes of thought towards you: like, dislike, or neutral.

So when you talk you should express yourself in order to polarize them from neutral to either like or dislike. That's basically the jist of it. Not bad as it means that you can be yourself.

I would have to say though that occasionally game is better. For example using a "boyfriend destroyer pattern", as mentioned in The Game, can be pretty darn useful. Something that's not really my personal style, but I think I ought to incorporate it into my game lol.
 

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I have a copy of The Game at home, but never got round to reading it properly. Can anyone recommend?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Practical Female psychology for the practical man. I don't know who stole from whom. It is an updated version of bonecrackers material. Less political and more tactical. Most of the senior guys here have repped it at some point.

For the LTR focused guys we should mention Athol Kay's books. Couple of the long married members rep.

Has anyone ever read Rollo s 2nd book. Rational Male an ounce of prevention? If it's half way decent I ll buy it to pay the guy back for his work.
 

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Oh and +1 for weapons of mass seduction. Plenty of how to and more importantly how to practice. I don't know if Senor Fingers was the best pants man ever or just compiled but either way required reading.
 
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