"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Best 2 books that you've ever read on game

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Best books I ever read concerning game are:

1. The Game - Neil Strauss
2. Pimp - Iceberg Slim

The Game, because it's so chock-full of game. For example, this excerpt:

"I liked style right away. He was obviously very practiced at making people like him. He made me feel important. He had a way of summing up my clunkily expressed ideas into simple, beautiful statements - all the while attributing the eloquence back to me. He was the perfect accomplice for an up-and-coming guru."

Pimp is just over-the-top in how to be an ice cold alpha male. Read it and felt like I had snorted a line of coke for the next 2 weeks.

If you had to choose 2 books that you were most impressed with game-wise, what would they be?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pook, and Doc Love's System

The DJ bible, and the actual bible (English Standard Version)
 

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Style had some vids out. They were pretty good. Modified mystery method is still a good framework. Bobby Rio had some good stuff on conversational skills and story telling. I found the female PUAs completely useless oddly enough.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A few guys here rep Doc Love. Is his stuff any different from antidump s material?
 

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There was also an old Sir chance alot thread on how to seks up a woman. It went for pages and was on the money. If you're in an ltr that would go a long way to keeping your woman interested in the D.
 

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Love Secrets of Don Juan - Tim Lott
The Alabaster Girl - Zan Perrion
The Rational Male (Part One) - Rollo
The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle (not game related, but definitive inner game material)
The 3% Man - Corey Wayne
Great Expectations - Charles ****ens
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The book of pook was an eye opener for me. Weapons of mass seduction is also spot on!!
 

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I absolutely refuse to read 'Coach Corey'. Is Models any good?
Models really up there among the best imo.

Basically what it says is that you should just express yourself when screening for women. Because women either have 3 modes of thought towards you: like, dislike, or neutral.

So when you talk you should express yourself in order to polarize them from neutral to either like or dislike. That's basically the jist of it. Not bad as it means that you can be yourself.

I would have to say though that occasionally game is better. For example using a "boyfriend destroyer pattern", as mentioned in The Game, can be pretty darn useful. Something that's not really my personal style, but I think I ought to incorporate it into my game lol.
 

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I have a copy of The Game at home, but never got round to reading it properly. Can anyone recommend?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Practical Female psychology for the practical man. I don't know who stole from whom. It is an updated version of bonecrackers material. Less political and more tactical. Most of the senior guys here have repped it at some point.

For the LTR focused guys we should mention Athol Kay's books. Couple of the long married members rep.

Has anyone ever read Rollo s 2nd book. Rational Male an ounce of prevention? If it's half way decent I ll buy it to pay the guy back for his work.
 

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Oh and +1 for weapons of mass seduction. Plenty of how to and more importantly how to practice. I don't know if Senor Fingers was the best pants man ever or just compiled but either way required reading.
 
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