"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Best 2 books that you've ever read on game

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Best books I ever read concerning game are:

1. The Game - Neil Strauss
2. Pimp - Iceberg Slim

The Game, because it's so chock-full of game. For example, this excerpt:

"I liked style right away. He was obviously very practiced at making people like him. He made me feel important. He had a way of summing up my clunkily expressed ideas into simple, beautiful statements - all the while attributing the eloquence back to me. He was the perfect accomplice for an up-and-coming guru."

Pimp is just over-the-top in how to be an ice cold alpha male. Read it and felt like I had snorted a line of coke for the next 2 weeks.

If you had to choose 2 books that you were most impressed with game-wise, what would they be?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Pook, and Doc Love's System

The DJ bible, and the actual bible (English Standard Version)
 

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Style had some vids out. They were pretty good. Modified mystery method is still a good framework. Bobby Rio had some good stuff on conversational skills and story telling. I found the female PUAs completely useless oddly enough.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A few guys here rep Doc Love. Is his stuff any different from antidump s material?
 

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There was also an old Sir chance alot thread on how to seks up a woman. It went for pages and was on the money. If you're in an ltr that would go a long way to keeping your woman interested in the D.
 

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Love Secrets of Don Juan - Tim Lott
The Alabaster Girl - Zan Perrion
The Rational Male (Part One) - Rollo
The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle (not game related, but definitive inner game material)
The 3% Man - Corey Wayne
Great Expectations - Charles ****ens
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The book of pook was an eye opener for me. Weapons of mass seduction is also spot on!!
 

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I absolutely refuse to read 'Coach Corey'. Is Models any good?
Models really up there among the best imo.

Basically what it says is that you should just express yourself when screening for women. Because women either have 3 modes of thought towards you: like, dislike, or neutral.

So when you talk you should express yourself in order to polarize them from neutral to either like or dislike. That's basically the jist of it. Not bad as it means that you can be yourself.

I would have to say though that occasionally game is better. For example using a "boyfriend destroyer pattern", as mentioned in The Game, can be pretty darn useful. Something that's not really my personal style, but I think I ought to incorporate it into my game lol.
 

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I have a copy of The Game at home, but never got round to reading it properly. Can anyone recommend?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Practical Female psychology for the practical man. I don't know who stole from whom. It is an updated version of bonecrackers material. Less political and more tactical. Most of the senior guys here have repped it at some point.

For the LTR focused guys we should mention Athol Kay's books. Couple of the long married members rep.

Has anyone ever read Rollo s 2nd book. Rational Male an ounce of prevention? If it's half way decent I ll buy it to pay the guy back for his work.
 

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Oh and +1 for weapons of mass seduction. Plenty of how to and more importantly how to practice. I don't know if Senor Fingers was the best pants man ever or just compiled but either way required reading.
 
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