"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Been trying to set up dates the right way, and on my second date with one chick she wasn't there. I was relieved because I was tired and didn't feel at my best, but here's a message she wrote to me (her only way of contacting me).

"Hey I am so sorry about today. I had a slight family emergency and had to run into ----- for the day. I wasn't by my phone for most of the day. Don't hate me...I'm really sorry."

Bullshyt. Next??

I'm thinking I'll give her one more call and say, "It's no problem, but you have to take ME out to make up for it." :trouble:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I like the sound of your plan.

She could have flaked yeah, but on the flipside, it could have been genuine. And dropping a nice chick in that circumstance would kinda suck.

But yeah, I would fully recommend what you had in mind, and if that don't work, move on :)

Good luck buddy.
 
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Thanks. I'll call her on Wednesday.
 
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Sexual said:
Been trying to set up dates the right way, and on my second date with one chick she wasn't there. I was relieved because I was tired and didn't feel at my best, but here's a message she wrote to me (her only way of contacting me).

"Hey I am so sorry about today. I had a slight family emergency and had to run into ----- for the day. I wasn't by my phone for most of the day. Don't hate me...I'm really sorry."

Bullshyt. Next??

I'm thinking I'll give her one more call and say, "It's no problem, but you have to take ME out to make up for it." :trouble:
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Give her one more chance, if she flakes again then just simply tell her. "You made a commitment to me, by cancelling that is disrespectful. See ya later."
and then just hang up.

Either she'll call you right back apologizing, or you'll never hear from her again.
 
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Sounds like you have it worked out...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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