"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Been trying to set up dates the right way, and on my second date with one chick she wasn't there. I was relieved because I was tired and didn't feel at my best, but here's a message she wrote to me (her only way of contacting me).

"Hey I am so sorry about today. I had a slight family emergency and had to run into ----- for the day. I wasn't by my phone for most of the day. Don't hate me...I'm really sorry."

Bullshyt. Next??

I'm thinking I'll give her one more call and say, "It's no problem, but you have to take ME out to make up for it." :trouble:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I like the sound of your plan.

She could have flaked yeah, but on the flipside, it could have been genuine. And dropping a nice chick in that circumstance would kinda suck.

But yeah, I would fully recommend what you had in mind, and if that don't work, move on :)

Good luck buddy.
 
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Thanks. I'll call her on Wednesday.
 
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Sexual said:
Been trying to set up dates the right way, and on my second date with one chick she wasn't there. I was relieved because I was tired and didn't feel at my best, but here's a message she wrote to me (her only way of contacting me).

"Hey I am so sorry about today. I had a slight family emergency and had to run into ----- for the day. I wasn't by my phone for most of the day. Don't hate me...I'm really sorry."

Bullshyt. Next??

I'm thinking I'll give her one more call and say, "It's no problem, but you have to take ME out to make up for it." :trouble:
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Give her one more chance, if she flakes again then just simply tell her. "You made a commitment to me, by cancelling that is disrespectful. See ya later."
and then just hang up.

Either she'll call you right back apologizing, or you'll never hear from her again.
 
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Sounds like you have it worked out...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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