"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sexual

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Been trying to set up dates the right way, and on my second date with one chick she wasn't there. I was relieved because I was tired and didn't feel at my best, but here's a message she wrote to me (her only way of contacting me).

"Hey I am so sorry about today. I had a slight family emergency and had to run into ----- for the day. I wasn't by my phone for most of the day. Don't hate me...I'm really sorry."

Bullshyt. Next??

I'm thinking I'll give her one more call and say, "It's no problem, but you have to take ME out to make up for it." :trouble:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I like the sound of your plan.

She could have flaked yeah, but on the flipside, it could have been genuine. And dropping a nice chick in that circumstance would kinda suck.

But yeah, I would fully recommend what you had in mind, and if that don't work, move on :)

Good luck buddy.
 

Sexual

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Thanks. I'll call her on Wednesday.
 

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Sexual said:
Been trying to set up dates the right way, and on my second date with one chick she wasn't there. I was relieved because I was tired and didn't feel at my best, but here's a message she wrote to me (her only way of contacting me).

"Hey I am so sorry about today. I had a slight family emergency and had to run into ----- for the day. I wasn't by my phone for most of the day. Don't hate me...I'm really sorry."

Bullshyt. Next??

I'm thinking I'll give her one more call and say, "It's no problem, but you have to take ME out to make up for it." :trouble:
Give her one more chance, if she flakes again then just simply tell her. "You made a commitment to me, by cancelling that is disrespectful. See ya later."
and then just hang up.

Either she'll call you right back apologizing, or you'll never hear from her again.
 

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Sounds like you have it worked out...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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