"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sexual

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Been trying to set up dates the right way, and on my second date with one chick she wasn't there. I was relieved because I was tired and didn't feel at my best, but here's a message she wrote to me (her only way of contacting me).

"Hey I am so sorry about today. I had a slight family emergency and had to run into ----- for the day. I wasn't by my phone for most of the day. Don't hate me...I'm really sorry."

Bullshyt. Next??

I'm thinking I'll give her one more call and say, "It's no problem, but you have to take ME out to make up for it." :trouble:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I like the sound of your plan.

She could have flaked yeah, but on the flipside, it could have been genuine. And dropping a nice chick in that circumstance would kinda suck.

But yeah, I would fully recommend what you had in mind, and if that don't work, move on :)

Good luck buddy.
 

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Thanks. I'll call her on Wednesday.
 

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Sexual said:
Been trying to set up dates the right way, and on my second date with one chick she wasn't there. I was relieved because I was tired and didn't feel at my best, but here's a message she wrote to me (her only way of contacting me).

"Hey I am so sorry about today. I had a slight family emergency and had to run into ----- for the day. I wasn't by my phone for most of the day. Don't hate me...I'm really sorry."

Bullshyt. Next??

I'm thinking I'll give her one more call and say, "It's no problem, but you have to take ME out to make up for it." :trouble:
Give her one more chance, if she flakes again then just simply tell her. "You made a commitment to me, by cancelling that is disrespectful. See ya later."
and then just hang up.

Either she'll call you right back apologizing, or you'll never hear from her again.
 

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Sounds like you have it worked out...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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