"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Being ****y, Good thing?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The way you walk..hold yourself in life/convos/etc...being the "alpha" male..showing your the best without saying it..that is CONFIDENCE.
Big diffrence, and ****yness is one of the biggest turnoffs for girls.
Personally, I use a bit of ****y with a somewhat sarcastic undertone. If you're going to be ****y, be ****y+funny. A DJ is ****y+funny, an arrogant idiot is just ****y.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Think about it like this. When you make a sandwich, normally you don't want just a single flavor to stand out. Naturally, you'd want a blend of everything that you put on it.
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RaWBLooD
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****y is fine just dont go around after reading this site thinkin about being something you arent.
for example it comes to mind now, i was 45 mins late to work the other day, and people were like wow u late, and then someone said it and then asked did i get in ****, i said nah i own the place, they said you wish, i said i really own the place.
i dont usually say **** like that but no one went around calling me an arrogant *******.
get what im sayin kids?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Think of it like this....If you squirt a whole bottle of mustard on your sandwich. All you will taste is mustard. If you take a whole bottle of barbeque sauce and pour it on a single piece of chicken; all you would taste is barbeque sauce. One question, if all you want to taste is ham, then why do you put on the toppings?
arutha
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The others have said it right, mix ****y with funny. But you can just make ****y comments as long as your tone and body language indicate you are just messing around.
Her: Wow, it sure is hot in here!
Me: Yeah, thats my effect
Her: Haha, nah I think its me
(grins all round)
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