Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Either she took it too seriously (add some more funny into the equation) or she's throwing some c+f back at you.Originally posted by AustinG
lol some girl i was talking to once was talking about somthing about have sex with me or somthin i said yea right i wouldent do that with you im not that easy..she said im ****y..lol
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When you make a sandwich, normally you don't want just a single flavor to stand out. Naturally, you'd want a blend of everything that you put on it. [/B]
****y is fine just dont go around after reading this site thinkin about being something you arent.Originally posted by shark
confident, not ****y. ****y is annoying, irritating and unattractive. Excessive bragging, only talking about oneself accomplisments..is being ****Y.
The way you walk..hold yourself in life/convos/etc...being the "alpha" male..showing your the best without saying it..that is CONFIDENCE.
Big diffrence, and ****yness is one of the biggest turnoffs for girls.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Think of it like this....If you squirt a whole bottle of mustard on your sandwich. All you will taste is mustard. If you take a whole bottle of barbeque sauce and pour it on a single piece of chicken; all you would taste is barbeque sauce. One question, if all you want to taste is ham, then why do you put on the toppings?Originally posted by RaWBLooD
thats not true
if i make a ham sandwich i wanna taste the ham not the toppings, altho you made a bad comparison cause youll taste everything in the sandwich no matter how little of it there is.