“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Being ****y, Good thing?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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confident, not ****y. ****y is annoying, irritating and unattractive. Excessive bragging, only talking about oneself accomplisments..is being ****Y.

The way you walk..hold yourself in life/convos/etc...being the "alpha" male..showing your the best without saying it..that is CONFIDENCE.

Big diffrence, and ****yness is one of the biggest turnoffs for girls.
 

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From the girls that I've talked to, they say they like confident guys over ****y guys. But girls don't know what they want.

Personally, I use a bit of ****y with a somewhat sarcastic undertone. If you're going to be ****y, be ****y+funny. A DJ is ****y+funny, an arrogant idiot is just ****y.
 

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lol some girl i was talking to once was talking about somthing about have sex with me or somthin i said yea right i wouldent do that with you im not that easy..she said im ****y..lol
 

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Originally posted by AustinG
lol some girl i was talking to once was talking about somthing about have sex with me or somthin i said yea right i wouldent do that with you im not that easy..she said im ****y..lol
Either she took it too seriously (add some more funny into the equation) or she's throwing some c+f back at you.

Ladies is pimps/DJ's too ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Being 100% ****y is bad bad bad!!! You have to have just the right blend of arrogance and the right blend of humor and personality to add to it. I'd say 60% arrogance and the other 40 is humor and personality.

Think about it like this. When you make a sandwich, normally you don't want just a single flavor to stand out. Naturally, you'd want a blend of everything that you put on it.
 

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With my experiences, I say ****y is ok. But just don't over do it, and don't do it all the time. Definately have a little humor with it too. I've said to my chick that "I'm the fvcking hottest man alive" and she only laughs and agrees with me lol. Except I do it with alot of enthusiasm. :cool:
 

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When you make a sandwich, normally you don't want just a single flavor to stand out. Naturally, you'd want a blend of everything that you put on it. [/B]

thats not true
if i make a ham sandwich i wanna taste the ham not the toppings, altho you made a bad comparison cause youll taste everything in the sandwich no matter how little of it there is.
 

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Originally posted by shark
confident, not ****y. ****y is annoying, irritating and unattractive. Excessive bragging, only talking about oneself accomplisments..is being ****Y.

The way you walk..hold yourself in life/convos/etc...being the "alpha" male..showing your the best without saying it..that is CONFIDENCE.

Big diffrence, and ****yness is one of the biggest turnoffs for girls.
****y is fine just dont go around after reading this site thinkin about being something you arent.

for example it comes to mind now, i was 45 mins late to work the other day, and people were like wow u late, and then someone said it and then asked did i get in ****, i said nah i own the place, they said you wish, i said i really own the place.

i dont usually say **** like that but no one went around calling me an arrogant *******.

get what im sayin kids?
 

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double post.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
thats not true
if i make a ham sandwich i wanna taste the ham not the toppings, altho you made a bad comparison cause youll taste everything in the sandwich no matter how little of it there is.
Think of it like this....If you squirt a whole bottle of mustard on your sandwich. All you will taste is mustard. If you take a whole bottle of barbeque sauce and pour it on a single piece of chicken; all you would taste is barbeque sauce. One question, if all you want to taste is ham, then why do you put on the toppings?
 

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What if you want to cook the sandwhich? How does that effect your ****iness?

The others have said it right, mix ****y with funny. But you can just make ****y comments as long as your tone and body language indicate you are just messing around.

Her: Wow, it sure is hot in here!

Me: Yeah, thats my effect :cool:

Her: Haha, nah I think its me

(grins all round)
 
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