"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Being ****y, Good thing?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The way you walk..hold yourself in life/convos/etc...being the "alpha" male..showing your the best without saying it..that is CONFIDENCE.
Big diffrence, and ****yness is one of the biggest turnoffs for girls.
Personally, I use a bit of ****y with a somewhat sarcastic undertone. If you're going to be ****y, be ****y+funny. A DJ is ****y+funny, an arrogant idiot is just ****y.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Think about it like this. When you make a sandwich, normally you don't want just a single flavor to stand out. Naturally, you'd want a blend of everything that you put on it.
DogFashionDisco
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RaWBLooD
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****y is fine just dont go around after reading this site thinkin about being something you arent.
for example it comes to mind now, i was 45 mins late to work the other day, and people were like wow u late, and then someone said it and then asked did i get in ****, i said nah i own the place, they said you wish, i said i really own the place.
i dont usually say **** like that but no one went around calling me an arrogant *******.
get what im sayin kids?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Think of it like this....If you squirt a whole bottle of mustard on your sandwich. All you will taste is mustard. If you take a whole bottle of barbeque sauce and pour it on a single piece of chicken; all you would taste is barbeque sauce. One question, if all you want to taste is ham, then why do you put on the toppings?
arutha
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The others have said it right, mix ****y with funny. But you can just make ****y comments as long as your tone and body language indicate you are just messing around.
Her: Wow, it sure is hot in here!
Me: Yeah, thats my effect
Her: Haha, nah I think its me
(grins all round)
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