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Lets here some ideas on being unpredictable and being a challenge so they dont lose interest.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Being Unpredictable
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
penkitten
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well to start, you can never plan to be unpredictable.
what kind of ideas are you looking for? dates or something else?
what kind of ideas are you looking for? dates or something else?
Dannyrt34
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Make her mad, then kiss her.
I like doing that
I like doing that
Badmannaz
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i jus got done talking about this..........
basically you have to be a mystery to them...i know women are big on their feelings and how a curtain guy makes them feel....you make them feel good one minute and then the next don't it keeps them on their toes...they never know when your going to be there...and they begin to cling to you a connection is made and then she's all yours...this is basically the entire game rolled into a little bit...it acutally works the best when your not interested in the girl....she might be pretty but she doesn't make you nervous meaning your game is going to be on point because your calm..
basically you have to be a mystery to them...i know women are big on their feelings and how a curtain guy makes them feel....you make them feel good one minute and then the next don't it keeps them on their toes...they never know when your going to be there...and they begin to cling to you a connection is made and then she's all yours...this is basically the entire game rolled into a little bit...it acutally works the best when your not interested in the girl....she might be pretty but she doesn't make you nervous meaning your game is going to be on point because your calm..
AngelusPUA
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If it’s just examples you want, I stop my car in the middle of a busy road and start kissing her.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ace of Flames
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Being spontaneous isn't something you can plan. That's just a contradiction. You can plan fake spontaniety though. Say you've been to wherever your date is planned beforehand. If there was some unusual thing there that you could be spontaneous about, you'd know about it in advance and could figure out what you want to say. Like say there is some kind of show to attend at the place you're going. When you get there and walk by it, you'll have something great planned to say that will seem spontaneous.
Of course, that's a lot of extra work for something that isn't hard in the first place. If you really wanna be spontaneous, just do the first thing you think of, right when you think of it.
Of course, that's a lot of extra work for something that isn't hard in the first place. If you really wanna be spontaneous, just do the first thing you think of, right when you think of it.
Here's a good mentaltrick for spontaneity (spelling?),
Imagine if you had to go on your impulses and went with your urges.
Ex. You guys are supposed to be watching a movie at her place and you're say "I'm fukking hungry, let's go get some KFC." on the way back, you realize you don't wanna watch Aeon Flux say "I think that movie you picked out is gonna suk, we're goin to the show." Follow the inner animal, lol. Seriously though.
Imagine if you had to go on your impulses and went with your urges.
Ex. You guys are supposed to be watching a movie at her place and you're say "I'm fukking hungry, let's go get some KFC." on the way back, you realize you don't wanna watch Aeon Flux say "I think that movie you picked out is gonna suk, we're goin to the show." Follow the inner animal, lol. Seriously though.
check_mate_kid_uk
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LOL!!! I was thinking the same thingpenkitten said: