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Lets here some ideas on being unpredictable and being a challenge so they dont lose interest.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Being Unpredictable
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
penkitten
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well to start, you can never plan to be unpredictable.
what kind of ideas are you looking for? dates or something else?
what kind of ideas are you looking for? dates or something else?
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Make her mad, then kiss her.
I like doing that
I like doing that
Badmannaz
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i jus got done talking about this..........
basically you have to be a mystery to them...i know women are big on their feelings and how a curtain guy makes them feel....you make them feel good one minute and then the next don't it keeps them on their toes...they never know when your going to be there...and they begin to cling to you a connection is made and then she's all yours...this is basically the entire game rolled into a little bit...it acutally works the best when your not interested in the girl....she might be pretty but she doesn't make you nervous meaning your game is going to be on point because your calm..
basically you have to be a mystery to them...i know women are big on their feelings and how a curtain guy makes them feel....you make them feel good one minute and then the next don't it keeps them on their toes...they never know when your going to be there...and they begin to cling to you a connection is made and then she's all yours...this is basically the entire game rolled into a little bit...it acutally works the best when your not interested in the girl....she might be pretty but she doesn't make you nervous meaning your game is going to be on point because your calm..
AngelusPUA
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If it’s just examples you want, I stop my car in the middle of a busy road and start kissing her.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ace of Flames
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Being spontaneous isn't something you can plan. That's just a contradiction. You can plan fake spontaniety though. Say you've been to wherever your date is planned beforehand. If there was some unusual thing there that you could be spontaneous about, you'd know about it in advance and could figure out what you want to say. Like say there is some kind of show to attend at the place you're going. When you get there and walk by it, you'll have something great planned to say that will seem spontaneous.
Of course, that's a lot of extra work for something that isn't hard in the first place. If you really wanna be spontaneous, just do the first thing you think of, right when you think of it.
Of course, that's a lot of extra work for something that isn't hard in the first place. If you really wanna be spontaneous, just do the first thing you think of, right when you think of it.
Here's a good mentaltrick for spontaneity (spelling?),
Imagine if you had to go on your impulses and went with your urges.
Ex. You guys are supposed to be watching a movie at her place and you're say "I'm fukking hungry, let's go get some KFC." on the way back, you realize you don't wanna watch Aeon Flux say "I think that movie you picked out is gonna suk, we're goin to the show." Follow the inner animal, lol. Seriously though.
Imagine if you had to go on your impulses and went with your urges.
Ex. You guys are supposed to be watching a movie at her place and you're say "I'm fukking hungry, let's go get some KFC." on the way back, you realize you don't wanna watch Aeon Flux say "I think that movie you picked out is gonna suk, we're goin to the show." Follow the inner animal, lol. Seriously though.
check_mate_kid_uk
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LOL!!! I was thinking the same thingpenkitten said: