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Lets here some ideas on being unpredictable and being a challenge so they dont lose interest.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Being Unpredictable
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
well to start, you can never plan to be unpredictable.
what kind of ideas are you looking for? dates or something else?
what kind of ideas are you looking for? dates or something else?
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Make her mad, then kiss her.
I like doing that
I like doing that
Badmannaz
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i jus got done talking about this..........
basically you have to be a mystery to them...i know women are big on their feelings and how a curtain guy makes them feel....you make them feel good one minute and then the next don't it keeps them on their toes...they never know when your going to be there...and they begin to cling to you a connection is made and then she's all yours...this is basically the entire game rolled into a little bit...it acutally works the best when your not interested in the girl....she might be pretty but she doesn't make you nervous meaning your game is going to be on point because your calm..
basically you have to be a mystery to them...i know women are big on their feelings and how a curtain guy makes them feel....you make them feel good one minute and then the next don't it keeps them on their toes...they never know when your going to be there...and they begin to cling to you a connection is made and then she's all yours...this is basically the entire game rolled into a little bit...it acutally works the best when your not interested in the girl....she might be pretty but she doesn't make you nervous meaning your game is going to be on point because your calm..
AngelusPUA
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If it’s just examples you want, I stop my car in the middle of a busy road and start kissing her.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ace of Flames
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Being spontaneous isn't something you can plan. That's just a contradiction. You can plan fake spontaniety though. Say you've been to wherever your date is planned beforehand. If there was some unusual thing there that you could be spontaneous about, you'd know about it in advance and could figure out what you want to say. Like say there is some kind of show to attend at the place you're going. When you get there and walk by it, you'll have something great planned to say that will seem spontaneous.
Of course, that's a lot of extra work for something that isn't hard in the first place. If you really wanna be spontaneous, just do the first thing you think of, right when you think of it.
Of course, that's a lot of extra work for something that isn't hard in the first place. If you really wanna be spontaneous, just do the first thing you think of, right when you think of it.
Here's a good mentaltrick for spontaneity (spelling?),
Imagine if you had to go on your impulses and went with your urges.
Ex. You guys are supposed to be watching a movie at her place and you're say "I'm fukking hungry, let's go get some KFC." on the way back, you realize you don't wanna watch Aeon Flux say "I think that movie you picked out is gonna suk, we're goin to the show." Follow the inner animal, lol. Seriously though.
Imagine if you had to go on your impulses and went with your urges.
Ex. You guys are supposed to be watching a movie at her place and you're say "I'm fukking hungry, let's go get some KFC." on the way back, you realize you don't wanna watch Aeon Flux say "I think that movie you picked out is gonna suk, we're goin to the show." Follow the inner animal, lol. Seriously though.
check_mate_kid_uk
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LOL!!! I was thinking the same thingpenkitten said: