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Lets here some ideas on being unpredictable and being a challenge so they dont lose interest.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Being Unpredictable
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
well to start, you can never plan to be unpredictable.
what kind of ideas are you looking for? dates or something else?
what kind of ideas are you looking for? dates or something else?
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Make her mad, then kiss her.
I like doing that
I like doing that
Badmannaz
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i jus got done talking about this..........
basically you have to be a mystery to them...i know women are big on their feelings and how a curtain guy makes them feel....you make them feel good one minute and then the next don't it keeps them on their toes...they never know when your going to be there...and they begin to cling to you a connection is made and then she's all yours...this is basically the entire game rolled into a little bit...it acutally works the best when your not interested in the girl....she might be pretty but she doesn't make you nervous meaning your game is going to be on point because your calm..
basically you have to be a mystery to them...i know women are big on their feelings and how a curtain guy makes them feel....you make them feel good one minute and then the next don't it keeps them on their toes...they never know when your going to be there...and they begin to cling to you a connection is made and then she's all yours...this is basically the entire game rolled into a little bit...it acutally works the best when your not interested in the girl....she might be pretty but she doesn't make you nervous meaning your game is going to be on point because your calm..
AngelusPUA
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If it’s just examples you want, I stop my car in the middle of a busy road and start kissing her.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Ace of Flames
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Being spontaneous isn't something you can plan. That's just a contradiction. You can plan fake spontaniety though. Say you've been to wherever your date is planned beforehand. If there was some unusual thing there that you could be spontaneous about, you'd know about it in advance and could figure out what you want to say. Like say there is some kind of show to attend at the place you're going. When you get there and walk by it, you'll have something great planned to say that will seem spontaneous.
Of course, that's a lot of extra work for something that isn't hard in the first place. If you really wanna be spontaneous, just do the first thing you think of, right when you think of it.
Of course, that's a lot of extra work for something that isn't hard in the first place. If you really wanna be spontaneous, just do the first thing you think of, right when you think of it.
Here's a good mentaltrick for spontaneity (spelling?),
Imagine if you had to go on your impulses and went with your urges.
Ex. You guys are supposed to be watching a movie at her place and you're say "I'm fukking hungry, let's go get some KFC." on the way back, you realize you don't wanna watch Aeon Flux say "I think that movie you picked out is gonna suk, we're goin to the show." Follow the inner animal, lol. Seriously though.
Imagine if you had to go on your impulses and went with your urges.
Ex. You guys are supposed to be watching a movie at her place and you're say "I'm fukking hungry, let's go get some KFC." on the way back, you realize you don't wanna watch Aeon Flux say "I think that movie you picked out is gonna suk, we're goin to the show." Follow the inner animal, lol. Seriously though.
check_mate_kid_uk
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LOL!!! I was thinking the same thingpenkitten said: