"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Being too muscular for women?

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Just wondering here, can one be too fvckin' big and bulky for womens taste. I've heard some chicks at work say they liked schwarzenegger back in his bodybuilding days and others seem to like the clean cut look. I don't have this problem myself (6'3" and 190lbs, on a bulking program right now) but I know one dude at my work who is 6'4" and about 220-230lbs.... we wear blue business shirts to work and his shirt has no room to breath, it's like it's been painted onto his body. How big is "too big"? Generally speaking here. Do ladies shy away from dudes that are too tall and too built?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheRisingSon

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Yep

Can a woman's body type effect your opinion on her? Yes? Same with women. I like slim and small breats... What? Someone else likes big boobs and huge a$$? Crazy! Why doesn't everyone like the same thing? Life would be so much easier (for those that met that model)!

(Really, before asking questions to this board, ask yourself. The answer is almost always obvious.)
 

MVPlaya

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I know bulky guys who look comfy in a suit, the guy is just picking a tight shirt so he can show off his biceps and pecs. Some women can think you're too big but all would agree its important to be TONED and I can't think of a single woman on this planet who does not cream herself when she sees a sexy sixpack.
 

Capitol39

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Originally posted by MVPlaya
I know bulky guys who look comfy in a suit, the guy is just picking a tight shirt so he can show off his biceps and pecs. Some women can think you're too big but all would agree its important to be TONED and I can't think of a single woman on this planet who does not cream herself when she sees a sexy sixpack.
Not ALL women would agree it's important to be toned. There is no consensus. People have different opinions.

Believe it or not, MANY women like skinny guys. In fact, there have been studies that indicate that MOST women find very muscular men unattractive.
 
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