"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being too muscular for women?

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Just wondering here, can one be too fvckin' big and bulky for womens taste. I've heard some chicks at work say they liked schwarzenegger back in his bodybuilding days and others seem to like the clean cut look. I don't have this problem myself (6'3" and 190lbs, on a bulking program right now) but I know one dude at my work who is 6'4" and about 220-230lbs.... we wear blue business shirts to work and his shirt has no room to breath, it's like it's been painted onto his body. How big is "too big"? Generally speaking here. Do ladies shy away from dudes that are too tall and too built?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheRisingSon

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Yep

Can a woman's body type effect your opinion on her? Yes? Same with women. I like slim and small breats... What? Someone else likes big boobs and huge a$$? Crazy! Why doesn't everyone like the same thing? Life would be so much easier (for those that met that model)!

(Really, before asking questions to this board, ask yourself. The answer is almost always obvious.)
 

MVPlaya

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I know bulky guys who look comfy in a suit, the guy is just picking a tight shirt so he can show off his biceps and pecs. Some women can think you're too big but all would agree its important to be TONED and I can't think of a single woman on this planet who does not cream herself when she sees a sexy sixpack.
 

Capitol39

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Originally posted by MVPlaya
I know bulky guys who look comfy in a suit, the guy is just picking a tight shirt so he can show off his biceps and pecs. Some women can think you're too big but all would agree its important to be TONED and I can't think of a single woman on this planet who does not cream herself when she sees a sexy sixpack.
Not ALL women would agree it's important to be toned. There is no consensus. People have different opinions.

Believe it or not, MANY women like skinny guys. In fact, there have been studies that indicate that MOST women find very muscular men unattractive.
 
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