"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being too muscular for women?

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Just wondering here, can one be too fvckin' big and bulky for womens taste. I've heard some chicks at work say they liked schwarzenegger back in his bodybuilding days and others seem to like the clean cut look. I don't have this problem myself (6'3" and 190lbs, on a bulking program right now) but I know one dude at my work who is 6'4" and about 220-230lbs.... we wear blue business shirts to work and his shirt has no room to breath, it's like it's been painted onto his body. How big is "too big"? Generally speaking here. Do ladies shy away from dudes that are too tall and too built?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheRisingSon

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Yep

Can a woman's body type effect your opinion on her? Yes? Same with women. I like slim and small breats... What? Someone else likes big boobs and huge a$$? Crazy! Why doesn't everyone like the same thing? Life would be so much easier (for those that met that model)!

(Really, before asking questions to this board, ask yourself. The answer is almost always obvious.)
 

MVPlaya

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I know bulky guys who look comfy in a suit, the guy is just picking a tight shirt so he can show off his biceps and pecs. Some women can think you're too big but all would agree its important to be TONED and I can't think of a single woman on this planet who does not cream herself when she sees a sexy sixpack.
 

Capitol39

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Originally posted by MVPlaya
I know bulky guys who look comfy in a suit, the guy is just picking a tight shirt so he can show off his biceps and pecs. Some women can think you're too big but all would agree its important to be TONED and I can't think of a single woman on this planet who does not cream herself when she sees a sexy sixpack.
Not ALL women would agree it's important to be toned. There is no consensus. People have different opinions.

Believe it or not, MANY women like skinny guys. In fact, there have been studies that indicate that MOST women find very muscular men unattractive.
 
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