"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being too muscular for women?

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Just wondering here, can one be too fvckin' big and bulky for womens taste. I've heard some chicks at work say they liked schwarzenegger back in his bodybuilding days and others seem to like the clean cut look. I don't have this problem myself (6'3" and 190lbs, on a bulking program right now) but I know one dude at my work who is 6'4" and about 220-230lbs.... we wear blue business shirts to work and his shirt has no room to breath, it's like it's been painted onto his body. How big is "too big"? Generally speaking here. Do ladies shy away from dudes that are too tall and too built?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheRisingSon

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Yep

Can a woman's body type effect your opinion on her? Yes? Same with women. I like slim and small breats... What? Someone else likes big boobs and huge a$$? Crazy! Why doesn't everyone like the same thing? Life would be so much easier (for those that met that model)!

(Really, before asking questions to this board, ask yourself. The answer is almost always obvious.)
 

MVPlaya

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I know bulky guys who look comfy in a suit, the guy is just picking a tight shirt so he can show off his biceps and pecs. Some women can think you're too big but all would agree its important to be TONED and I can't think of a single woman on this planet who does not cream herself when she sees a sexy sixpack.
 

Capitol39

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Originally posted by MVPlaya
I know bulky guys who look comfy in a suit, the guy is just picking a tight shirt so he can show off his biceps and pecs. Some women can think you're too big but all would agree its important to be TONED and I can't think of a single woman on this planet who does not cream herself when she sees a sexy sixpack.
Not ALL women would agree it's important to be toned. There is no consensus. People have different opinions.

Believe it or not, MANY women like skinny guys. In fact, there have been studies that indicate that MOST women find very muscular men unattractive.
 
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