"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being sore after a work out...good sign?

mahon83050

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I have been lifting 4-5X a week for 4 months and I still do get sore after a workout. I know you will be sore when you first start, however is this uncommon even when you have been working that same body part once a week for the past 4 months? I.E, I worked legs tonight (squats, leg extensions, hyperextensions) and I can barely walk up the stairs (a little sarcasm there). IMO, I say it is a good sign because it shows I worked my muscles hard and did not do a half assz workout. Do you agree and is this normal?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DIESEL

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it means you're working hard. worry if you're never at least a little sore after a workout.
 

sonick182

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I like bein sore personally, its like... knowing I spent my gym money well instead of wasting it on a crappy workout :p
 
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