"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Being sore after a work out...good sign?

mahon83050

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I have been lifting 4-5X a week for 4 months and I still do get sore after a workout. I know you will be sore when you first start, however is this uncommon even when you have been working that same body part once a week for the past 4 months? I.E, I worked legs tonight (squats, leg extensions, hyperextensions) and I can barely walk up the stairs (a little sarcasm there). IMO, I say it is a good sign because it shows I worked my muscles hard and did not do a half assz workout. Do you agree and is this normal?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DIESEL

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it means you're working hard. worry if you're never at least a little sore after a workout.
 

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I like bein sore personally, its like... knowing I spent my gym money well instead of wasting it on a crappy workout :p
 
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