"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being sore after a work out...good sign?

mahon83050

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I have been lifting 4-5X a week for 4 months and I still do get sore after a workout. I know you will be sore when you first start, however is this uncommon even when you have been working that same body part once a week for the past 4 months? I.E, I worked legs tonight (squats, leg extensions, hyperextensions) and I can barely walk up the stairs (a little sarcasm there). IMO, I say it is a good sign because it shows I worked my muscles hard and did not do a half assz workout. Do you agree and is this normal?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DIESEL

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it means you're working hard. worry if you're never at least a little sore after a workout.
 

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I like bein sore personally, its like... knowing I spent my gym money well instead of wasting it on a crappy workout :p
 
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