"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Being sexy, as a men.

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We can figure out the image of a sexy women, but how could we figure out the image of a sexy men?
Which is the image of a sexy men for a women?

This is a hard thing to do for an hetero men, because in our imagination we don't have a sexy men, but a women instead.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's not really that hard.

Ever been on a beach when a guy with a nice body and six pack abs walks by and all the women almost break their necks turning their head to look at him?
 

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I think it's a big difference if you are talking about famous persons or the ones that women know in person. Famous persons are mysterious by default and you can project whatever you want into them. Or they find some actor sexy because of a role he played.

Real persons don't play roles and you can't project that much. Attitude, thus, becomes probably the most decisive factor.
 

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Attitude, thus, becomes probably the most decisive factor.
Do you mean men attitude towards? I've commentend something interesting here . I never felt envy, but Instead I desire to achieve this skill He has. What skill name, and how we can achieve it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think it's a big difference if you are talking about famous persons or the ones that women know in person. Famous persons are mysterious by default and you can project whatever you want into them. Or they find some actor sexy because of a role he played.

Real persons don't play roles and you can't project that much. Attitude, thus, becomes probably the most decisive factor.
After a woman knows you for a while, sure. But when they don't know anything about you, your looks are what the differentiating factor is at that point.
 
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